So you want to know how to buy lingerie for your girlfriend, but you don’t know where to start, well neither did I. I have spoken to a lot of women about this, and gotten all sorts of advice on the things consider when buying lingerie for a girlfriend. It’s all pretty simple advice once you learn it all, and the biggest problem is usually because we are shy as men to bring up the topic or walk into a store to buy it.
Now I want to give you some tips and advice when buying lingerie for your girlfriend, but first you need to get over the being shy part. Let me tell a quick story:
A while back, a man was in the same situation that we are all in right now, he wanted to buy some lingerie for his wife. As he walked around looking for a store, all of the shops just seemed a little intimidating and exclusively aimed at female shoppers, makes sense. But it’s not a comfortable environment for most men to walk in to, a store full of women all shopping for underwear, maybe feeling uncomfortable, not half as much as we do.
So what did this man do, yep he sucked it up like man and walked right off without the underwear, but what he did do was create a type of women’s lingerie store that was specifically designed to make men feel comfortable. The décor is dark, the lights are dimmed, the store is very well known yet discreet. The name of this store created by Roy Raymond is what we know today as Ann Summers.
So, you will realize nowadays that most lingerie stores are a little more subtle, and this is for you to go in there and buy the lingerie, so don’t feel intimidated, it’s actually a safe space created just for us!
What to Consider When Choosing Lingerie for Your Girlfriend
You might be excited at the thought of buying your girlfriend, shy or maybe a bit anxious. I know I am always excited when buying lingerie for my girlfriend, cause I’ll get to see it later. There are a few things you need to make sure you know before you go ahead and open your wallet, so I want to let you know of a few things to consider when buying lingerie for your wife or gf.
Know Her Size:
So the most obvious and important thing is to know her size, and how do you know your girlfriends lingerie size, you go snooping. If it’s not a surprise you could just directly ask her, otherwise take a look at the underwear she already has, and make a note of the sizes. Sizes can vary among different brands, so always compare it against the brands size chart.
Consider her Preferences:
Pay attention to the types of fabrics she already owns and wears most. What type of colors and styles, does she have a lot of lace, or silk, satin, get an overall idea of the style she would most like. You can search online for something she already has, then look at the recommended alternatives, this give you an idea of similar styles.
Consider the Occasion: Whats the occasion? Is it date night, and anniversary, going on a weekend away or you just want to be spontaneous. Different occasions may call for different styles of lingerie. For example, a delicate lace teddy or a babydoll can create a romantic atmosphere, while a sexy bra and panty set may be more suitable for an intimate evening.
If you are not sure about the different types of lingerie, Bluefashion have a great article on this. But I will also write a little about the different type a little later in the article.
Focus on Comfort: Lingerie looks great to the eye, we can all agree, but they also have to be comfortable to wear (even if they don’t stay on for long). Don’t go for the cheapest option, make sure its made from good quality soft materials, it’s always best to buy in store so you can feel the material.
Pay Attention to Details: Consider the finer details of the lingerie, such as intricate lacework, embellishments, or unique design elements that you think she would appreciate. These details can add to the overall aesthetic appeal and make the lingerie feel more special. Consider what you like also, as your reaction to her wearing it will most definitely be judged.
Include a Personal Touch: Consider adding a personal touch to the gift. You could add a personalized note, get her initials embroidered into the lingerie or just presenting it in a romantic setting.
If you are not good at the investigating, then communication will be key. You want to make sure you match all of her preferences, but also that you are going to like them as well. It’s a great part of a relationship to communicate about, and it makes the occasion more of a shared intimate moment for the two of you.
What Lingerie for Her Body Type
If you know your woman well enough, you will know that she has her favorite, and less favorite parts of her body. Even if we know they are beautiful, and we reassure them all of the time, just like us men women have their own insecurities. Again, if you are talking about it together, she will tell you exactly what she wants, and this is the easiest, but if it’s a gift, you want to think about a few things first.
If you know your girlfriend is insecure about her midsection, something in the style of a Baby Doll that is a gown that covers her stomach is a good option. If she is always telling you how great her breasts are, then a nice lace top will go down well. Use a bit of logic, and think about it from her perspective to make sure she is comfortable with whatever you get her.
The last thing you want is her feeling insecure in a moment you wanted to be special for you both.
Is it normal to offer lingerie to a woman as a gift?
So yo don’t want to turn up on a first date with some lingerie, unless you just have some uber confidence and game that allows you to do this, I mean I can see that working if you have a jet parked on the runway.
Buying lingerie for a girl is something that is usually done when you have a closer relationship, or are at least comfortable with each other, have been on a few dates, spent some time together.
Once you have taken the relationship to another level, been intimate, it’s a lot more acceptable gift.
Some key Lingerie terms you need to know
Babydoll: A short and sexy nightgown that you can get in many colors and styles.
Plunge: A plunge bra is one that has a deep V-neckline in the center.
Push Up: A push up bra won’t only have the wire, but also some padding at the bottom to push the breasts up.
Balconette Bra: A bra with a lower cut and minimal cups creating a straight line across the bust.
Thong: No explanation needed, the one we all like.
FAQ’s
These are some general tips and advice to consider when buying lingerie for your woman, but there are still a myriad of questions a guy will ask himself before he commits, so let me cover some of those for you as well, I know I asked myself all of them!
How do I choose lingerie for my girlfriend?
Taking into consideration all of the advice above, you make the best possible choice. If you can narrow it down to favorite color, type of fabric, the style from existing things she wears, and get the size to within 85 percent accurate, you are golden.
What kind of lingerie is given as a gift by a boyfriend?
In all honesty, lets not mess about here, we are buying sexy underwear as a gift. I mean for every day underwear there’s no need for so much effort, this is a special occasion.
What color lingerie do you find the most sexy?
If you are confident, you can get lingerie for your girlfriend that meet all of her requirements, but get a color that you find sexy. If you express this when you give the gift, it adds more confidence to the outfit cause she already knows you like it.
How do I tell my wife to wear lingerie?
Well as a start you don’t tell her, this takes the fun and sexy part away from it. You should have a talk when the moment is right, suggest if she would like to go lingerie shopping with you, start there and see if it is something she likes.